“Some people think football is a matter of life and death. I don’t like that attitude. I can assure them it is much more serious than that.”
Football has always been in my life. I have never been very good playing it but that never stopped me as passion overcame inability. I followed my dad in supporting Rangers as a lad then randomly followed Blackburn when I lived in England.
The playing side of things involved the usual street kick-abouts, some games at school and the Boys Brigade teams as a lad. As an adult, there were occasional stand in and charity games of 11 a side but the most regular games were 5 a side. Sadly I’m now at an age when excuses not to play at all are too easy to find. The valid ones are games that have fallen apart because people left the fold or were moved to places too difficult for me to get to. The invalid reasons revolve around laziness and less interest than I used to have.
The watching side of things has had 4 main stages. Stage 1 was, as mentioned, following my dad in supporting Rangers. This became part of the sadly predictable sectarian football divide in Glasgow and around. One of my personal reasons for arguing against religious faith based state funded schools is that they allowed me and others to too easily see the other side of this divide as being “the other” as they were largely at different schools with no day to day interaction between us. When I got to university this changed and my anti bigotry approach then developed. Rangers were part of the fallout and I effectively stopped supporting them as I had them firmly in the sectarianism cesspit that I was then trying to escape. It is only in recent years that I have accepted that they are and, for good or bad, always will be, my Scottish team.
This was part of stage 2 of my footy support which was coupled with the arrival of my kids. This stage therefore meant no active involvement in watching the game.
Stage 3 came as my son was old enough to show a strong interest in watching games and he became my excuse to get back to it. We were in Warrington at the time and I randomly took him in with the Blackburn fans at a game at Everton. Good football (at the time!), a new stadium and a very family friendly approach then led us all as a family to Ewood Park. My daughter has understandably never forgiven me. Rovers are therefore my English team despite having lived nearer Liverpool and Manchester, being introduced to Man City (pre the arab dollars) by Kevin Wilson who brought me to north west England and, more recently, being able to walk from home to either Man City or United’s grounds.
The current stage 4 in my story of support was brought about by falling out of love with so called top level football. Rangers going bust, Rovers being mis-sold to foreign owners and the well documented effects of tv and foreign money plus football authority corruption in the game led me to this position. More positively, it has led me to going to many lower and non league games where the community aspects are still believable and even, sometimes, real.
This current approach still involves a few Rovers away games each season. This came full circle in a sense recently as Rovers had a pre season friendly at Ibrox. It had to be done despite some logistical juggling. The game itself was a shocker but this was never the point. There were multiple points:
- seeing my recently arrived grandson before the game.
- going back to Ibrox for probably only the second time since falling out with their sectarian element. It’s not as bad as it was in my day but as my mate Michael discovered visiting the Lauden Tavern bar next to the ground afterwards, it’s sadly still alive and spreading hate.
- going to the game with my son, his mates and my uncle. Bill had been to Ibrox in the past with my dad so it was nice to reflect on this connection.
The key thing for me was family and friends. Community if you like. The football doesn’t really matter to me that much anymore. It will always be my sport and I will never fully escape it but there are more important things in life. Despite what Bill Shankly said.